Chess is an interesting game. This is the game of chess that I lost last night against my kid.
I guess I could win a game, if I really cared enough about it. You have to plan out your moves several steps in advance in order to actually beat someone. I wonder if there has been any scientific studies on kids who play chess, and how successful they become in life. I can debunk that theory. I once tried to learn to play chess from some guy who was a recovering crack addict. Of course, who knows, he might have ended up successful after all.
I know loads of successful people who don’t even play chess so I guess that’s why a group of scientists decided to make up their own game to determine how kids will turn out later in life.
It’s called the Marshmallow Test
http://healthland.time.com/2011/01/24/the-key-to-health-wealth-and-success-self-control/
Here’s how it works. You sit a kid down at the table and hand them on big fat marshmallow. The kid can eat the marshmallow, but if they can wait 15 minutes without eating the marshmallow, they can have 2 marshmallows. Then the scientist left the room and came back in 15 minutes.
The kids who waited were able to turn around and entertain themselves to keep their mind off the marshmallow.
Scientists studied 1,000 kids as they grew up and reached adulthood. The kids who didn’t eat the marshmallow, were more likely to become successful and made higher grades on the SAT. Even the kids who came from poor families who didn’t eat the marshmallow, grew up and were able to get high paying jobs.
The kids who ate the marshmallow, were more likely to get pregnant as teenagers, get into crime, and get low paying jobs.
These scientists proved that self-control can get you far in life. They didn’t manage to get how to tips from the parents of these kids who had iron wills. Seriously, sure, that totally makes sense, but what I want is a “how to” booklet to tell me step by step how it’s done.
I found this “Marshmallow Test” fascinating because I read this book by Malcolm Gladwell called “The Outliers.” There was this scientist guy who gathered the geniuses of the world, kids who scored 130 or above, and these guys just turned out to be ordinary people later in life. As it turns out, the higher the IQ, the less likely you are at being very successful. Maybe they were just too smart to get lured into the “Rat Race”. Maybe they didn’t want to work at some pointless meaningless job just so they could buy a bunch of stuff to impress people they really don’t care about.
My daughter made below average on her IQ test at school, yet passed the Marshmallow test with flying colors.
Just for the record, I thought up a great chess strategy to help those who are playing chess with a grand master in a tournament. If you find that you need to pass and you can’t move without loosing, simply blow a little pepper into the opponents face without them noticing. While the opponent sneezes, tap a piece on the board twice to make it sound like you moved. If they ask where you moved, you don’t have to tell them. They’ll be so confused that they might not win the game.
(FYI: I bought the multi-game board at a garage sale for $5)




such fun…and such wisdom. Great combination. I like the grandmaster “chess tip” by the way. I’ll try to remember that the next time I am in mortal chess combat with the ghosts of Bobby Fisher. Who’d a thunk that a little pepper could be such a great leveler?
once I bought each of my two daughters a can of whipped cream for Christmas. It was great fun. One took a little each day for several weeks, the other downed the can in two days. I call it the whipped cream test.
Interesting post! I believe that someone who is in recovery from a drug addiction is a very successful person, because many people with more socially acceptable addictions like alcohol never get out of the denial stage… I admire people who go into recovery greatly!!
Blessings ~ Wendy
A way back in the day, I taught my kid to “play” chess. Shortly after that I quit playing chess. Seems I never knew how to play. Utterly humiliating having one’s chess savvy handed back to you by a young’un.
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Any grandmaster can play without looking at the board. He will know you did not move. As for persistence, that is likely a question of learning the necessary values and setting a good example. Independent thinking must be valued highly.
Interesting post and a sgnificant topic. Ma I suggest you read: Summerhill: A Radical Approach To Child Rearing
by Alexander Sutherland Neill, Erich Fromm
It deals extensively with this topic and was quite controversial
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What a fascinating post!
So what about the marshmallows you put on a stick over the fire until it, too, starts blazing? You remember, the ones you then blew out?
What effect did that have on our subsequent lives? Anything we can blame or credit?
I love fire marshmallow. But in reality, I’m a now kinda person with the marshmallow long gone before I sat down. All my kids are too. Granted we didn’t get up college material. No patience for that kind of thing but we tend toward writers, artist and gamers. Now that is up our alley. Wonder if they looked at how many kids ate the marshmallow ended up being creative people even if they have no patience.
That’s a good point. Scientists do tend to be biased. They have their own ideas of what makes a person good or not.
Slow and steady wins the race! I have known many people with high IQ’s that don’t seem to know what to with themselves so they watch TV a lot and complain. I have also known some people that worked really hard and did some amazing things with regular brains. I believe people make their lives what they want them to be. Your kid sounds like she is off to a good start. Resisting a marshmallow is not easy for a lot of kids to do! We all have our strengths and our personal version of success. I don’t know what I am trying to say exactly, but I’d be pretty proud of that daughter of yours right now if she were mine.
Great post. Never had a hankering for chess, though. Marshmallows on the other hand… well, lets just say I’d have failed miserably. But where does that leave me?
Great post!
Love the chess, etc. gameboard setup. I admired it until I got to the end of the post & saw that you found it for $5! Then I fell in love with it! What a great find!
Thanks for sharing…
I notice that there is a video at the link provided and it’s funny. The kids are told to stay in the chair. This is key, as at that age sitting in these chairs can be torture. A lot of jobs that are high paying require the ability to sit comfortably in chairs for long periods, executive meetings for example.
For adults a good way to deal with this problem is to learn a lot of stretches for the hip region and low back as well as a good variety of leg lifts. I don’t know what the answer for children would be, perhaps consult an Iyengar style yoga teacher with children. This guy might know: http://openskyyoga.com/francois-raoult. I think he used to teach a class for children, but I’m not sure, it was long ago.
Very interesting! I can see how self-control taught early in life would bear positive results later. I also like how they coupeld it with self-expression.
Awesome!!! Thanks for posting this one, it’s a wise take away!
Of course, if there had been three children in the same room, with one marshmallow, it may have been the canny one who did not wait!
The marshmallow test is about impulse control, and that might well be a factor in adult life. From what I’ve read, chess grandmasters tend to be on the loony side. One challenged God to play chess, but then religious people talk to God all the time, so there’s not much difference there. http://www.funtrivia.com/askft/Question47697.html
My thought with God would be to take both of His “bishops” first!
And you’d have to keep your eyes open, just in case he moved in a mysterious way.
Yes!
My father-in-law perfected the “Helicopter” move. This is where, when you are going to lose, you bring your knee “accidentally” up to the board, making a few pieces “helicopter” into the air. The board is ruined and, while you technically lost, the feeling isn’t quite the same.
I came here to jot down that the scientists have not ‘proved’ anything. They have measured in a manner accepted as showing proof of the ‘likeliness’ of something.
I’m sidetracked by your comments and wish I could manage to inspire or provoke a fraction of the content or quality. THough life should not be about comparison with another.
I like the helicopter move and many others of maybe more depth of analysis in comment.
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Hmmm…People can end up in statuses of life that are not at level with their abilities…Hmmm…I guess it’s probably in their interest and motivation levels…
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